10 Things We Have Missed During Lockdown

July 13, 2020

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When starting the year none of us could ever have imagined how the year would play out, not least because of the unforeseen circumstances of COVID-19 and lockdown. From birthdays spent without loved ones to not being able to take a trip to the local shop – I think it is fair to say the acts we once took for granted are the things that have truly been missed the most.

• School. One of the most obvious misfortunes of the pandemic is that for over three months children have been unable to attend school. Although at first, we thought within weeks we would be back in the classroom the reality has been very different. At first glance, we could have assumed learning would come to a complete standstill but the wonders of technology never cease. I know I speak for the masses when I say we will never look at Zoom in the same way!
• Exams. Often the burden of a student’s school days is the thought of hours spent in an exam hall taking a paper of which the results are likely to be a strong determinant of your future. However, this year life is notably different. For many, missing out on the last chance to prove yourself can be massively disheartening. With the majority of this year’s grades being based on classwork alone, it is understandable why this will be missed.
• Extra-curricular. Extra-curricular activities that come with school life are one thing definitely missed for the plethora of benefits they bring. Time away has reinforced their value as not just an activity that breaks up an afternoon but actually, they prove to be a valuable reminder of who we are. They give us the chance to collaborate with others in an attempt to do something meaningful – and one that doesn’t strain your eyes as you peer through your computer lens!
• Friends. It’s not always our closest friends who we miss the most, but those who we occasionally speak to. It is the quick catchups over a coffee and even those with whom am exchange of a smile can make your day. This spontaneity is what makes life’s everyday intricacies and without which the days certainly seem a lot duller.
• Celebrations. So many big events have also gone a miss and unfortunately solitude has been an underlying theme that is a constant no matter how many people are on the Zoom call. Spending important days without family can be difficult, but the thought of celebrating with them at a later date after lockdown is an exciting thought.
• Making plans. Gathering with others now requires a lot more effort than before lockdown with a great deal of thought going into social distancing and ensuring those you meet with are not at risk. The ability to do things without purpose has been removed with health and safety rightly put at the centre.
• Travel. It seems that there might be some light at the end of the tunnel, with air bridges as a first step. Travel – in some form – has been missed by nearly everyone. Many have really missed any sort of change of scene, so I am sure the opportunity to spend some time away from home will bring some much-needed relief post – lockdown.
• Shops and restaurants. In addition to this, the opening of non-essential services is a profound change that has come into fruition in recent weeks. This brings a sense of normality, and of course, it is an ideal opportunity to give the economy a much-needed boost.
• Structure. This is one thing that makes the days go more quickly and ensures work actually gets done. Rituals keep us accountable to the demands of life and provide something to look forward to. When we know what is coming for the day ahead, comfort is brought – a much-needed antidote to the unpredictability of the pandemic.
• Routine. Along with structure comes routine which brings solace in times of uncertainty. Doing the same things everyday whether it be lessons or meetings or commuting provides a certainty concealed in the bustle of everyday life but now recognised as important as the pace slows.

Somehow these past few months have gone quicker and slower than ever at the same time! There has been so much opportunity for reflection. In this regard, I know I speak for many when I say that missing out on everyday life has also provided the opportunity to be more grateful, so when normal life resumes – which it will – we know exactly where our priorities lie.

Some poignant words written by our intern Chloe